Do as I Say, Not Who I Did by Ali Drucker

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Published:
27 Apr 2022
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Paperback
Number of pages:
262 pages
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203x140x19mm
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0.277kgs
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Consent is essential - that's Sex 101. And if you ask Ali Drucker, young women also deserve more - like time to explore what turns them on, space to voice their needs, self-compassion after a hookup goes sideways, and yes (obviously): pleasure! It's hard to overstate how much we put pressure on early sexual encounters - and how little real advice is out there. How do I deal when I keep running into my one-night stand? How can I tell if I'm too drunk to have sex? How do I say stop when I'm not really into it? Why do I keep getting all these UTIs? And most of all: Why is so much of sex ed focused on what could go wrong instead of what actually feels good? In this unflinchingly honest guide to hookups and relationships in the twenty-first century, Ali Drucker answers these questions and more.
This is shame-free, affirmative sex education for college-age women, and anyone just discovering what they want
 
"Do As I Say, Not Who I Did is not subtle, delicate, or laced in metaphor. . . . It's compelling, funny, and unflinchingly educational while delivering a stream of unconditional compassion for the reader."-Daily Campus
  
It's hard to overstate how much we put pressure on early sexual encounters-and how little real advice is out there. How do I deal when I keep running into my one-night stand? How can I tell if I'm too drunk to have sex? How do I say stop when I'm not really into it? Why do I keep getting all these UTIs? 
 
And most of all: Why is so much of sex ed focused on what could go wrong instead of what actually feels good? In this unflinchingly honest guide to hookups and relationships in the twenty-first century, Ali Drucker answers these questions and more-with "been there, done that" confessional advice, plus input from experts on sexuality and from students in college today. 
 
If you missed out on shame-free, affirmative sex education . . . if you're nervous about having sex . . . if you're just discovering what you want (and how to ask for it)-this book is for you.

About the Author: Ali Drucker is a freelance writer based in Los Angeles who covers sexual health and pop culture. She lives with her husband, temperamental cat, and moderately well-behaved dog. You can find her work in The New York Times, New York magazine, HuffPost, Refinery29, and more. She previously served as the sex and relationships senior editor at Maxim and Cosmo. When she's not interviewing people about their sex lives, Ali enjoys loading up on SPF and going to the beach, taking easy hikes, and snuggling with her pets while watching old episodes of shows she's seen a million times on Netflix.

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